(The night Slim Proposed)
I love my boo! Happily married, but of course there are times where things are rough! In those moments, I am a firm believer that people should follow this rule...
You want your relationship to work, don't EVER put your personal drama on social media! I'm talking Facebook, Twitter, all of that. Talk about your happy moments, but NEVER talk about when things are not right. Misery loves company and people will try to infiltrate your relationship if they know something is wrong.
I'm not saying pretend, or fake it, if you are irritated that's one thing. If he forgot to put the toilet seat down or she forgot to wake you up on time...those are funny, go ahead and vent, but if you guys are going through it, I mean really going through it, work that out without social media.
WHY YOU SHOULD TRUST ME ON THIS: Since I was 19 and started in radio, I have been extremely public, sharing even the most intimate of moments with the listeners. Thank God I have a husband who understands my job and respects my openness so much so that when we were having marriage issues he went with me to Marriage Boot Camp and allowed it to be filmed for TV (it will air nationwide in May.) We know that haters are gonna come out the wood work, we expect it, but if what we went through can help another couple, it was worth it for us. I LOVE being open, but I have witnessed the ugly side of people knowing your business and it can be extremely detrimental to a relationship. Again, Trust me as someone who has put it all out there, I know and I have your best interest at heart!
Keep it between you two! Shout from the rooftops your happy moments, but hold on to those not so happy ones! Some people are rooting for you to fail. REMEMBER THAT!